First Time Using a Toy (For Him & Her)

For Her: A Gentle Introduction
Your first toy should feel like an extension of your desires—soft, intuitive, and pleasurable. Start with:
• Vibrators – A discreet, external option like a bullet or wand for gentle exploration.
• Slim G-Spot Toys – Curved for comfort and discovery, perfect for beginners. Do not overwhelm yourself or your partner with a large G-spot toy, as this will be inserted, and you want to ease into it.
💡 Tip: Take your time, explore sensations, and listen to your body. There’s no rush to ‘get it right.’
For Him: A New Sensory Experience
Men’s toys are designed to enhance pleasure in ways you may have never imagined. Consider starting with:
• Masturbation Sleeves & Cups – Perfect for solo play or couple play, offering realistic textures and different intensities.
• Vibrating Rings – Enhances sensitivity while adding a new dimension to intimacy.
💡 Tip: Try adjusting pressure and speed with your masturbation sleeve or cup to discover what feels best—warming lubricants can also enhance the experience.

For Both: Exploring Together
Bringing a toy into your intimacy can heighten pleasure, deepen connection, and create exciting new experiences. The key is communication, curiosity, and starting slow.
Many men find immense pleasure in watching their partner enjoy themselves—it’s arousing to see their desire build and unfold. However, not everyone feels comfortable being watched, and that’s completely natural. The most important step is open communication—talk about what excites you, what makes you nervous, and how you can explore pleasure together in a way that feels safe and exciting.
A great way to ease into this is by introducing a bullet vibrator or clitoral stimulator—not just for solo use, but as a tool for connection. When a man uses it on his partner, it encourages intimacy, builds trust, and adds a new layer of excitement to foreplay and lovemaking. Whether you're looking to rekindle passion or simply try something new, small steps like this can transform the energy in the bedroom and make every touch feel more electric.
💡 Tip: Start slow, let pleasure take its course, and focus on enjoying the journey together—there’s no pressure, only discovery.